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Question by dodger: Are people who fit these categories necessarily good parents?
Are parents who are not divorced, not struggling with alcoholism, middle income and up, and not physically or sexually abusive towards their kids automatically considered “good parents”? Should they be?
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Answer by BabeHeart
They are not automatically considered “good” parents…but they are most likely, almost assuredly, better parents than those who do have substance abuse and violence problems.
Just because a couple has money, doesn’t drink or smoke or use drugs, isn’t violent (physical or verbal) and are squeaky clean xian types doesn’t mean they are good parents. They may still neglect their kids, over or under nourish them, allow them too much freedom or be too strict, have odd rules the kids have to abide by, or odd punishments that aren’t effective, not encourage them in the proper direction, not support the kids in their efforts, not help the kids to grow and mature to their maximum potential, etc…
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Truly good parents aren’t simply determined by categories; each person is an individual, and there are many, many factors that come into play not included in these simple categories; for instance, how do they treat their children verbally? What kinds of feeling do they put off toward their children? And so on, and so forth. So no, these simple categories do not automatically make a good parent.
They would be considered good parents. Not because they they have money but because of the other reasons you mentioned. Having money does not make you a good or a bad parent.
If a parent was an alcoholic, physically or sexually abusive towards their children, they would definitely be bad parents.
A good parent is not one who gives their child anything they want, but a good parent is one who loves their child unconditional, teaches them right from wrong, listens to them read, checks their home work, teaches them responsibility by giving the choirs to do and teaching them to be responsible for their own things. Praise them for doing a good job and if they didn’t, have them do it over again.
A good parent gives lot of hugs and kiss and I love yous.
I think it is best to give them a different choir each week or month. Like they will take the trash out every day for a week or a month without being told to do it. The next week give him a different job to do. Set the table and clear it off after the meal. Another week teach them how to clean the commodes and let them do that for a week or month. Doing the same job every week would get boring to them. By giving them a different jobs, they learn to do other things.
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