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Question by C. Mckay: Binge drank in early pregnancy – i think i should have a termination?
Panic. I binge drank when i didn’t know i was 26 days pregant, i should have guessed as i kept having funny dreams about being pregnant… i was about 4 and a half weeks i guess, the most vital stage for brain and facial feature development. i maybe had 4 shots of bacardi (it could have been 5 as i don’t know how big the measure my boyfriend poured me was) in about an hour! On a full stomach but i felt quite eurphoric and definitly intoxicated and detached for quie a few hours. I got a hang over and felt nauseous and dizzy well into the early hours. I’m so awfully sorry that this has happened. My boyfriend wants me to have a termination and i think i have to agree, we are both phd students and i’m afraid i couldn’t bare to have a retarded child – he has no alcohol tolerance although i can drink like a fish so it is genetically possibly vulnerable. (it was unplanned by the way) after we read this:
“If a woman binge drinks during such a critical stage, significant harm may be inflicted on the developing fetal brain. The resulting deficits can range from gross structural abnormalities, such as small brain size (i. e. , microencephaly) with significantly altered brain circuitry. Children exposed to even a single binge drinking episode (blood alcohol levels over 0.07 or 80mg) show behavioural difficulties such as adhd (poor attention and impulse control), have on average 7 points lower iq than controls (sometimes up to 24 points) and perform far less well on verbal and numeric reasoning tests at age 7 and 14. Before age of 7 and 14 their learning disabilites are not evident, but their peers soon surpass them.
I guess i just want to know i’m doing the right thing in having a termination.
I felt pretty drunk, and i felt ill afterwards, my blood alcohol level must have been at least 0.07, enough to cause the death of a third of the fetal brain cells – which cannot regenerate. Thus i do think i’m fairly screwed. My mother drank like a fish with me but a single binge episode is universally believed to MUCH more harmful than moderate or light drinking (2 a day) over a few hours, or over a week. 4/5 drinks in an hour? That’s got to be majorly damaging. My timing was just, awful. And the worst thing is, i never drink usually.
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Answer by Jaclyn…#1 due 02/01/09
I think wherever you found that information is ridiculous. Drinking in early pregnancy RARELY effects the fetus. They are not taking nutrients from your placenta yet, therefore, i doubt your child would come out with any problems. There are many many woman out there who do not know that they are pregnant and drink until they are intoxicated. Now drinking later on in pregnancy can cause fetal alcohol syndrome, but even then, doctors still believe a certain amount of alcohol in pregnancy may be safe. Of course I wouldn’t try it, just because there is a chance of hurting baby, but in your case. i highly highly doubt your baby has had any harm.
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At 4 1/2 weeks the baby is not even fully attached to you. I think what you read was 2 weeks ahead of where you actually were. (At the moment of conception, you are considered 2 weeks pregnant already based on LMP) The baby does not become fully attached until near 6 weeks.
Yes, I think it would be a mistake.
I’m sorry, but it is not your decision to terminate a pregnancy. you don’t know for sure if the baby is retarded or not. Why would you murder him/her, and not give him/her a choice to live their own life and make their own decisions?
Prayer is a powerful weapon. The same God that is forming your son/daughter in your womb, is the same God that can protect him/her from being retarded.
I have heard of many occasions when parents were given a laundry list of defects in their unborn child, and after seeking God in prayer, the next ultrasound showed no defects whatsoever.
You may not believe that it is possible, but it is nevertheless. Wouldn’t you rather try prayer before murder?
God has a plan for your little one. If He wants them to be born, who are you to send them back to Him prematurely?
You may not like what I am saying, but I need to at least be a voice for yout unborn son/daughter (or twins) and say “Mommy, I want to live. I want you to hold me in your arms, and I want you to love me no matter what. I love you mommy”
Please, have a heart, let your little one live!
Ok, I RARELY IF EVER DRINK! literally maybe once every two years. Well last october i decided to drink for the first time in years… and i drank EVERCLEAR out of all things…! Well, two days later i had to go in for a blood test to just check over everything ( i have to do this often for other reasons) well, they found that i was 6 weeks pregnant! with my third.. iw as terrified about the drinking i did but she came out an incredibly healthy and beautiful baby girl. I wouldn’t sweat it this early.. Much worse has been done by many women and it seems to turn out ok for the majority.. please dont terminate regardless.
So….your answer to a potential problem is to kill somebody?
First, this problem is your creation. YOU chose to have sex. You may not have intended to become pregnant, but you did participate in the activity that causes pregnancy.
Second, you have no idea of there is any damage to the child or not. Killing them because there is a chance there may be a developmental problem makes no sense at all.
Third…”I couldn’t bare to have a retarded child.” Based on that hugely selfish statement, I am sure the child would be better off if you put him/her up for adoption anyway.
Please don’t abort the baby! It’s not the baby’s fault and it’s not yours either because you didn’t know. I was taking 4 Ibuprofen 800 mgs a day before I found out I was pregnant. I paniced because I thought the baby was deformed or it had Rye’s syndrome(Yes IBs can cause that). But the doctor said just stop taking them and the baby will be fine.
I am heartily sick of seeing kids
who should be bright and intelligent being saddled with
innattentiveness,
behavioral problems and less ability than their genes would have
offered them because their Mum drank while they were pregnant.
By 4 weeks pregnant, you are in a critical era of your baby’s creation. He or she is very busy as an embryo moving from the fallopian tubes into the uterus. Once the embryo finds a spot that feels right in your uterus, it will split into two parts, forming a placenta and a baby. The placenta serves two important purposes; it protects your growing child, and provides nourishment as development continues. Your baby’s still teeny tiny, but already has three unique layers. The outer layer is the beginning of the organs, skin, hair, eyes, nervous system, and tissues; this is called the ectoderm. The middle layer is the mesoderm, which will become the heart, sex organs, kidneys, bones, and muscles. Finally, the endoderm will mature into the digestive system, lungs and liver.n HOWEVER, pregnancy has 2 weeks added on it to make it 9months, you are only 2 weeks and possibly a few days pregnant! at this time your bubba is already budding. He or she is just a mass of cells that is enlarging Your baby is only the size of a pinhead.
An abortion is unfair, when you yourselfd have inflicted this alcohol consumption on your child it had no choice
i believe its only fair to live with the child you have been given for a reason.
It is your decision to get an abortion, but it would be wise to talk to a doctor
good luck
What you described iis NOT considered binge drinking and honestly, there are so many mothers that drank before they knew they were pregnant and their children still came out normal. The info you got is really twisted to scare women from drinking. If you were doing shots daily for weeks at a time, then I would be concerned. This is no reason to abort. If you are not ready for a child, then let that be the reason. But don’t use the possibility, which is slim to none at best, of retardation as an excuse for aborting!