Question by Don_wasntme: Ex-wife is having a comittment ceremony, should I make my children go?
My ex-wife is being comitted in a ceremony to a transexual (male becoming female). My girls 15, 17, and 19 were asked by her to go. Its local, but they do not want to go. I have custody of them and do not like this new person. I have been neutral of her relationship because I think she is mentally out there as do her children. My girls do not want to attend as their mom abandoned them last year, went into drug/alcohol rehab and the relationship is difficult with their mother to say the least.
What should I do, besides support their decision?

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Answer by linav88
Support their decision, let her know the reason why, maybe have the kids pick out a gift to send to them…and continue being the excellent parent you are.

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