Question by : My boyfriend accuses me of liking girls and now I am letting him convince me?
My boyfriends mother passed away a few years ago. She was a bulky women with really short hair. He told me his dad used to always accuse her of being a lesbian.. even though she wasn’t (or at least no evidence?). Anyways, theyre really catholic and HATE on gay people, but I myself was raised in SF and taught to accept LGBT and give them their rights.

When I was 12 years old I was dared to kiss a girl (in exchange to watch our boyfriends make out!) and when I was 15 I was dared to again (I didn’t enjoy it I was just in it for the attention/rush) although I thought I might have had feelings for this one girl who ended up getting a sex change (now a boy) and that was when I was going through a HORRIBLE break up with my boyfriend of 2 years and was in an only girls rehab (I had runaway from home and my boyfriend abused drugs and was abusive to me). So anyways, now, I am 20 and since then I have never questioned my sexuality (seeing myself as straight and knowing that in the past I wanted to be BI because it seemed to be in style with my gorup of friends, and sometimes questioned whether or not I was BI)

Anyways, my boyfriends knows what happened in the past and now he is always accusing me of liking girls. I can’t look at a magazine with a pretty actress on it and say “she’s pretty” without my boyfriend GETTING JELOUS and thinking that I like girls like that. He seems to bring it up a lot and I know part of it is because his dad seems to think that all girls like girls and always accused his mom of it. Anyways, now I find myself paying more attention to how I feel and now find myself questioning if I like girls, when before, for the past 5 years I knew I never did. Maybe, because of him, I am paying more attention to girls more. Its like, he is making me believe it or something.

And I don’t know what to do. He is really the person Im going to be with the rest of my life and I am not the type to experiment (I was put in theraputic boarding school for 2 years in high school and lets just say I am a changed person).

How do I deal with this? I find myself more curious than EVER and now wondering if I have crushes on girls because they are pretty? I can’t tell in my head if I am joking about that or not.

HELP?!

Best answer:

Answer by tsisanta111
tell him 2 go jump and not 2 accuse u of things! u hav ur rights and u dont need him 2 tell u what you are! stick up for your rights!!

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