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Question by Jennifer: my guy is married and his wife is an alcoholic also a cop there isn’t any communication other than the kids?
according to him.He is seeing me when he isn’t at work or with his kids.they have no sexual ties at this time for about 6 months now so all of the sexual things in his life is coming from me.Every time he tries to touch her all she says is don’t touch me.Am I wrong for giving him the loving that he is seeking?Keep in mind he was honest about being married.
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Answer by Nana
YES YOU ARE WRONG…….AND HIM TOO! How dare you go to bed with a married man. If things were that bad, why doesn’t he divorce her and than you can date him. You are a very low moral person. Shame on you!!! Think about it. If you were married, would you want your husband cheating on you???? Straighten your life up and find someone unattached.
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I have been where you are.
Please do not continue with this relationship. Married men ALWAYS say they don’t have sex with their wives, and a couple of months later their wife is pregnant!
Any man who starts another relationship before he has dealt with his current one is NO MAN in my mind.
You are getting sloppy seconds, dear. There’s no nice way to say that. You are being used.
Take back your dignity, woman!
Well, there are two sides to every story. And remember, she does carry a gun.
I wonder who has raised some of you women into the smuts that you are today? Possibly no one? Could just be a nasty trait some women have.
Anyway, you’re clearly clueless if you need to question this.
um… you think that giving him sex equates to giving him love?
HAHA!!! …. the only thing your giving this guy is a routine BJ and sex… other than that, I can assure you he’s not getting “love” from you…
Yes you are wrong, he was honest about being married but probably lieing about the sex, and you should wait till it is over over.
Yes you are! and he’s a cheat so he’s probably a liar to.
Why do you in believe him? Its common sense, if he can cheats his own wife, why cant he cheats you ? you are just his sex friend.And the story he is making is very common stories of cheaters.
Yes your wrong because he admits that he is married and that he is still trying with his wife.
Hey it takes two to Tango. As long as you both get what you need and nobody gets hurt go for it.
marriage is holy, and even do he is being honest with you he is doing wrong to his kids and wife. You are doing something wrong, and your relationship is only making things worst for him.
He’s lying. Most cops are whores…she doesnt want him touching her because he’s ALWAYS cheating.
Why did you feel the need to give sex to a married man….sorry you can’t justify that. Above and beyond all of us is “Thou shall not covet”. There are plenty of desperate single men who you could have chosen to share your talents and your skill. If he was so unloved he could have worked on his marriage or filed for divorce, bottom line. And the truth is, you have absolutely NO idea what the reality of his home life is…..NONE. He most likely likes his nest, but likes some side action too, in truth he most likely has lied too his wife and lied too you too! See, it’s not about you and it’s not about his wife, it’s all about him and what he wants. Men that cheat, lie, your married BF is no exception to the rule. If he were, he would have left his wife by now, open your eyes, you are sooo being played. You deserve it b/c you decided to have sex with a married man, but on the other hand I feel sorry for you, you have a lot to learn about married men and cheating! Fortunately, I guess you are learning.
Ha, ha — an honest liar! He’s lying to and cheating on his wife — there’s nothing admirable in a man who would do that. He’s using you for sex — like a prostitute, only cheaper. Don’t expect this relationship to be anything more than it is now, because he’s already getting the only thing he’s interested in.
Okay, let me get this straight. You’re sleeping with a guy that’s married to an alcoholic cop that carries a gun and can claim self-defense without question who says “don’t touch me”?
Yeah, that sounds like a situation with a great ending, especially with kids involved!
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askme – Good points!
***Amaretta – I wouldn’t put it exactly that way, but you have a point.
Reality check: He is not your guy. He is another woman’s husband, probably sleeps with her on a regular basis, and high-fives himself morning noon and night on having found a bimbo stupid enough to not only believe his lies but also let him use her for a toilet. That idiot, in case you didn’t get it, is you.