Question by Suzy R.: My husband is destroying my life!!! this is a bit long?
My husband grew up in the same town, but finally met last November. Four month later we married. I have children, he does not…I have my own place, he lived with his parents..they paid all his bills since nothing he has is in his name and he has always lived with them except for about 3 years total. We’re 33 years old. I’m a hairstylist and have been employed at my place of business for 3 years now.

I shouldve seen it coming when he was on workman’s comp for 5 months of our relationship. He could never find work , so I always ended up paying the bills cause eveything here is in my name (he moved in with me).
Over the course of the last 7 months of marriage, he became physically abusive, and I started drinking again (I’m a recovering alchoholic), which turned into an ugly situation.

He recently found a job at a Tom Thumb only cause I pushed him to call the guy back for an interview. I kicked him about about 6 weeks ago when he hit me one last time…Since then my life has turned into a nightmare..

I’ve had an anonymous phonecal one time at 11.30 pm for child neglect, and I’m sure he made this call. I wasn’t arrested, but now I have CPS on my back for a fake phonecall and my children have been placed with my 62 year old mother who is having a hard time, but she would never let them go to foster care. In my heart I know he did it, although he denies it…
I gave him a benefit of a doubt out of lonliness, and tried to see if we could do some typef counseling, but he refused (i’m still going anyway.)
We’ve have been intimate cause he still is my husband but he hides it from his family, especially since his father put a block on his cell phone so I can’t call him now.
I found out today that he is talking so much trash about me, saying he left cause I was an alcoholic, and that was totally not the case!! He hasn’t told anyone about the physical abuse. I also found out he’s gone and shown some intimate pictures that we took together, to paople that know us both and telling them he’s using me for booty calls!!
I haven’t confronted him on it cause I’m gonna wait til he calls me which should be soon….To answer any questions, YES i’m disgusted and I am divorcing him, but how is the RIGHT way to approach this situation?? He’s always been VERY controlling of me since we got married in MARCh: isolating me from friends, checking my messages, snooping around after we split several times before this, but this isn’t a boyfriend…how could my own husband do this to me??
His family can’t stand me cause he’s telling him his side, and now he’s getting everybody in town to think the worst of me….WHAT NEXT?? and WHY would he do this??? What is the whole motive behind this

Best answer:

Answer by deleon_jenifer
y are u still sleeping with this man?? and u shouldve known from the beginning he was no good…what 33 yr old lives with his parents??he is a loser and a mommas boy..u need to get rid of him and get a divorce!!

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