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Question by anj: I know my ex bf is doing crystal meth in the home of his kids but he threatened me not to say anything?
We dated over a year and a half. He has 3 children ages ranging 10-14. The mother is not in the picture. We had a messy breakup 2 months ago. He told me around the time we broke up he had tried meth a “couple times” the month before. Since the break up he’s moved on with a new woman and she’s moved in to the home. I know for a fact the two of them are doing meth in the home with the children in the home..and are inviting strangers into the home late at night for sex threesomes while high on the meth.
I talked to his dad and told him that my ex was making some really bad choices. Apparently his dad mentioned it to my ex and my ex called me and said never to talk to people in his life or he would be “not so nice” to me in the future. I want nothing to do with my ex again..honestly he is scary and I don’t want to be a part of this sordid world anymore. But I love his children and am very scared for their safety and I feel an obligation to try to do something..how safe can they be when the “adults” in the home are using meth? What should I do? I dont think I can talk to my ex..he’s beyond hope..Should I talk to his father and just lay it all out what is going on. I know it will get traced back to me though and I will get retaliated against. Should I just butt out? I need good advice please.
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Answer by GreenMan
Call child protective services but don’t give your name & also block your phone number.
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I would call child protective services. You already spoke to his father, and he went right back and told your ex about it. Tell them what you know, and tell them you are worried about your OWN safety if he finds out it was you who notified them.
go to the cops ..get them to see ..inside the house… good on you..to help the kids ..that is all you can do
talk to the father , because besides that u don’t kn0w what else c0uld be g0ing 0n in that h0me , this is h0w kids gr0w up br0ken and s0metime s0n drugs and everything else because they relive what they seen in there childh00d life especailly if there is girls inv0lved its even a m0re danger0us and hurtful situati0n n0t kn0wing what the dad is capable 0f d0in t0 her 0r them when he is high. i w0uld talk t0 the dad , if he d0es n0thing i w0uld talk t0 a family member wh0 will take acti0n. alth0ugh y0ur saying ur ex is crazy the welfare and mind state 0f these children is m0re imp0rtant i repeat PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEEEEE!!! think ab0ut these kids if y0u l0ve them d0 whats right !! and i pray everything will be 0k. G0D always pr0tets his children. and just c0ntinue t0 pray f0r them if they d0nt have that m0m figure and y0u l0ve them im sure y0ur l00ked up0n as m0m. G0D BLESS U GRACE AND PEACE !
Get the police involved. That will help the kids. However, I can almost guarantee that you will be retaliated against. A druggy enemy with nothing more to lose. You do the math.
What proof do you have that this is going on? I would say if you really have the kids best intentions at heart than play this real smooth by getting the proof you need first like recorded conversations about drug use or tell him you miss the kids and would like to take them to the park and ask them questions while you record them without them knowing. You don’t want to tip him off that you are going to tell on him because then he will just be harder to catch.I would not deal with his father about it. Leave his family out of it you would be better off letting a trusted friend or one of your family members do the telling for you. Or call the child’s school and talk with the principal because they will then be obligated to have the home investigated. Just be careful not to tip him off or the kids.