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Question by A: there is a baby that may die….?
My friend’s daughter has a baby. she is a horrible drug addict, prostitute, and alcoholic. She will drive drunk and high with the baby. She will bring him into drug dealer’s houses. she will get crack heads to baby sit him.
I was speaking with my friend about her daughter’s behavior, and she told me it wasnt my place… which is true. But if something happened to the baby I would feel guilty.
I want to report her to child services and the police… but I am scared to. This girl has threatened me on numerous occasions. She has stolen my prescription meds, my money, and other things…. and says if I say a word she will kill me or have someone else kill me. I think she’s all talk… but WTF??
You have to understand the predicament I’m in….. dont just say, ‘call the cops’ I know I should… but i dont want to find out if she’s serious…. she has some crazy friends that would do anything for a bag.
If I call she will know it was me.. are you 100% positive the tip line is anonymous?
I know I posted this earlier… but I want a lot of options…. and are their state workers out there that can tell me if the tips are anonymous for sure.
You cant be put in witness protection for calling in a welfare tip.
thank you for your help.. I made an appointment with a mandated reporter… so she will report it and keep me anonymous.
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Answer by helo pilot cfi
dam lady what about doing the right think and call child protective services it is your place to protect an innocent little child get off the PC and get on the phone with cps your call will not be divulged please save this child not to make u feel guilty consider this child abused, neglected or killed can you live with ti when you could ahve done something about it
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Write a letter that can’t be traced to you & say you are afraid to report her because she has threatened you but you need the police & others to do something to protect this child. Hurry up! I have a friend whose granddaughter was only 2 months old & died when her daughter was visiting her drug addicted b/f. When people are on drugs they will do anything crazy as you know. They could inject her. Just hurry cause there is no way they should trace it to you if cop car just pulls her over.
Of course they are anonymous. But nothing will stop the girl from assuming it was you that called the cops. Have you talked to your friend about this? I would think the friend would want to be a good grandparent to his or her grandchild. Isn’t the friend concerned for his or her’s own grandchild?! Call social services. If anything, they will give the grandparents custody.
Call child services. She will most likely end up in jail. This will keep you safe and stop her from mooching off you. Drug addicts don’t have any freinds, so no, she can’t send anyone to kill you.
We really need to start making things like this our responsibility. This is why we have so much of this going on around us, because we feel like we shouldn’t get involved. This baby needs help because she can’t help herself. What is she gonna do? Think about it. You have no idea what those crackheads are doing to her right now. Come on with the way things are now a days you cannot trust anyone. And yes you will be kept anonymous.
I would rather die trying to save someones life
than to live knowing I could have helped ,but didn’t because I was afraid
if you tell child protective services that threats were made against you , they keep your name out of it.!
do the right thing!
If I were you I would speak to the appropriate persons be it the police or child protection services, and see what witness protection etc is available.
Just think if somethings happens to the child, and you had done nothing.
I understand the situation your in but if you’re going to do something I would do it sooner rather than later.
Only my opinion.
yeah that’s tough. i know it’s painful to watch, but you’re right. see, you already tipped your hand by talking to them about it in the first place. coulda, shoulda, woulda. yeah the tip lines are anonymous, but you will be the #1 suspect. you might have to cut all ties and wait until somebody else turns her in. sorry.
You can do whatever you feel is right. Why do you keep the child’s grandmother as a friend anyway? She is a horrible person to let her grandchild live in that situation. If I were you I would cut off all contact with all of that group and call the Child Protective Services. They are required to investigate and are not allowed to disclose the name of the person who reports the situation. The mother will assume it is you, but someone is going to report her eventually and if she thinks it was you she is going to retaliate at that time anyway. So either forget about it, hide your head in the sand, or do what you know is right.
Shame on you for not reporting it already.