Comments on: What if you suspect your hubby is cheating in rehab?

By: Fast Steve

Fast Steve — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 14:23:57 +0000

First of all i am glad you are in rehab. It sounds like you need marriage counseling and to ask him where he is coming from? He may not be cheating and this may be partly hormones and feeling down about things and your marriage but it also may not be…. What signs is he showing is he treating you any differently and acting strangly? try to write to him and call him and visit him whevever it is allowed. Let him know how much you love and are supportive of him and are proud of him for doing this. Be the loving and supportive wife you need to be. He may very well be happy being there because he is getting the help he needs and he feels better about himself and what is happening in his life and he is talking with people that can relate to what he is going through and understand him. Ask them there what the policies are and see what they tell you. I doubt he is cheating though. I dont think they are trying to push him away from you at all. They just want him to get better and change before coming home to you!

By: aj607

aj607 — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 14:14:38 +0000

usually they do seperate genders in rehab. but they can sneak around and have an affair, but if they do they’ll get kicked out (some facilities have different policies). but your husband also may seem distant because he’s having a hard time. he might be feeling alone and scared and of course he doesn’t want to let his guard down and tell you that. give it time and see if it gets better. don’t stress because you need to stay in good health for your baby. things will work out.

By: Baghdaddy

Baghdaddy — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 13:23:11 +0000

Where there is a will there is a way. However, alot of people on here are going to say he is cheating. We don’t know that. Neither do you. That is why your asking. Remember, he is in rehab because he had an addiction. Now that the ETOH has been cut off, he is going to have physcological changes including both physical and mental withdrawal. Try not to jump to conclusions until you have hard facts.

By: charlesjerrell

charlesjerrell — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 12:36:45 +0000

no one knows but him , dont asume anything with out proof, its hard to go through any rehab, maybe he just is having a bad time with it