2011-12-15
In ALCOHOLISM TREATMENT / Tags: situation, this, would /
Question by Angela Avalon: What would you do in this situation?
My husband left for 3 weeks on a supposed drinking binge with his buddies in Sweden. We have a one year old child. I have very good reason to suspect that he has a secret relationship with a girl over there, but even without that suspicion, I don’t think it was right that he went on this trip. He says I should just trust him. Should I be here when he gets back or should I pack up and leave?
Best answer:
Answer by Mary
if u dont trust him then theres no point,dont waste anymore of your life.leave!
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He obviously doesn’t respect you. No husband should needs to go on a trip to Sweden for three weeks. I’ve lived in Sweden for awhile and there is no good there for him. He should be home with his family.
Leave. A few days even about a week would be understandable. One week shy of a month is NOT understandable. He’s thinking about one thing only and that’s himself.
Leave. Take your baby and go.
He doesn’t deserve you and is taking you for granted. Don’t give him the satisfaction of you being there when he gets back.
wow that is tough for a man to go on a drunk trip. with out having solid evidence it is hard to prove that he cheated on you. now if you really want to know if your husband is a cheat then hire you a dectective to investigate him. if your theory is true then you know what you must do leave him. you don’t want to leave and then find out you made a big mistake. pray on this matter and hopefully you will get the answer you prayed for!
I’d be gone. And I wouldn’t tell him I was leaving or where I was at.
You should wait for him, and you dont have a proof that theres another girl out there. and besides he just needed a break with his buddies, but next time dont let him go for 3 wks. thats too much.
Pack and leave. Is he training to become an alcoholic as well?
There is no need to go on a THREE WEEK drinking binge!! Especially with a one year old child; he should be at home watching his child grow and supporting his wife. I would think about leaving; especially if you don’t trust him!
sweet en the deal, trust him